I Have an Addiction to Being a Tease? Is This Stemming From Narcissism?
Question by Artemis Marie: I have an addiction to being a Tease? Is this stemming from Narcissism?
Okay here’s the deal with me.
Around the last couple months of being 17 and now being 18, I’ve noticed I have this “addiction” if you will, to being a tease. I know that sounds weird but like, okay, I did some online searching a while back because I started realizing I was really really vain and people started calling me narcissistic. At first it was funny I was like whatever I’m just confident and I know I’m good looking blah blah. But then after a while, I really stopped disagreeing with them. I realized yea I kind if am narcissistic. It doesn’t bother me, as conceited as I sound I’m just trying to explain how I am. I’m Really attractive and I seem to have Very good fortune. So I’m narcissistic. I researched traits of people with Narcissism so I’m pretty confident I am.
Anyway the problem I have is, I’m a virgin and proud of it but, I like have this Weird desire to be sexual with every guy that’s at least A little attractive. Older men, guys my age, guys at the store, movies, campus, parties, Taco Bell, lol. Wherever I see a guy I feel the urge to be this like super sexual sex goddess, it’s weird! I know I sound like a loon but I’m dead serious.
And the reason I continue is because Every Time I flirt/tease I Instantly get the guy to want me. No matter what, I can get any guy to flirt with me or want me. Without a doubt. And it’s like weird, somehow i just give off this sexual pheromone lolol, I squint my eyes a little and keep my posture straight and Bam! I can get a guy to ask me out Guaranteed! Lol idk! And it’s like feeding my ego Every time the guy responds back with this burning want in his eyes I’m like “Yea, I know. You want me, of course.”
But! I don’t want to have sex, until I’m married, so i end up being a big tease cause i just like the powerful feeling I get from having a guy desire me. I already think I’m Beautiful, but its creepy, it’s like I need the desire from guys (and jealousy sometimes from girls watching me flirt) to rejuvenate my ego and like reassure me that I am beautiful. It’s like I Need constant proof.
I also know how dangerous it is, to flirt like this and use guys just to get more attention, I can just Tell that if I keep this seductive, lustful behavior up I could end up getting like raped.
Anyway, no this isn’t a joke to get attention or win a bet. I really just need help/advice. I’m dead ass serious, this is like, how my mind works.
Idk maybe this is too intense for Yahoo!
..lol anyway
Best answer:
Answer by lala
NO advice here will change your mind
\much less your behaviour
so keep teasing ;; until the day something really bad will happen to you
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