How Addiction Happens

Question by scroobius pip: I think i’ve lost my mind!!!!?
I am a female. I just recently enjoyed my 24 birthday. I can now safely say I’ve never felt this horrible my whole life. I have always had crushes and what I thought was love. Even to the point I had married someone for about 5 years just to find out it was a very bad decision. Since my divorce I had reconciled myself that I wasn’t going to get into a serious relationship for a while. Nor, was I even looking for a relationship. But….somehow…it happened. I met someone and at first I had thought we are just going to have a good time. After only two dates he was (for the first time in my whole life) the first to say “I think I’m falling in love with you.” My own ex husband had never said that. Well I had let it slide. Thought nothing of it. If anything thought that’s so sweet. But something completely unexpected happened. After about a week I started feeling completely sick to my stomach, I couldn’t think clearly, I’d go days without stopping to eat, I’d look at the clock and realize oh my god its 4:00am??!!! And yet, still not feel tired. A medical friend of mine said that the symptoms I’ve described to her, matched someone withdrawing from a drug addiction. Yet, I’ve never done a drug in my life. I finally sought medical help and much to my surprise the doctor actually told me I am Love Sick. I thought he was joking but he said no its a real medical condition. Unfortunately, he said, there really isn’t a cure, that I should just wait it out try to think clearly and see what happens in this relationship. I have googled to the ends of the earth and yet that seems to be the popular answer, “just ride it out, see what happens.” This is proving harder than I ever thought imaginable. Does anyone know a cure or remedy for love sickness? and should I tell my significant other that I feel this way? Because apparently, according to him i’m perfect, and i’m the one, and has actually asked me where I’ve been his whole life. And even though this is the happiest I should ever feel I literally feel like I’m dying i’m so sick. Please help. I’m out of ideas.

Best answer:

Answer by Lambert
It kinda sounds like your obsessed with him and having some anxiety issues, med can help with the anxiety, but the only thing that I can think of is that you need to focus your attention to something else besides your relationship.

Answer by tonyr24
take 5-htp- serotonin boosting supplements– may help you to feel better and increase your mood. Get sleeping pills to sleep properly as well.

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