How Do I Get My Man to Stay Away From Porn?
Question by Proud Mama Bear 2 Brody&October!: How do i get my man to stay away from Porn?
I have been with my fiance for 2yrs, and I’m now pregnant. Since my sex drive has decreased, he has went back to his old habit of watching porn. He knows I hate it, and that I have had a bad past dealing with my father and mother divorcing because of his “addiction” to porn. My fiance now says its his “addiction” and he likes it so much, he doesnt want to give it up. So in return, I try to be more helpful to his sexual needs hoping he will stop, but it hasnt, and I dont know what to do? Is their anyway to make this stop?
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Answer by Molly
Yes leave and be with a decent man who’s not into porn. If he had any compassion or respect for you he wouldn’t be involved with it especially knowing about your past with it and how it upsets you. He is showing you bright red flags and I think you should use your head on this one or you’ll probably be very unhappy. It shows his character and how unimportant you are to him. He doesn’t respect you so you need to respect yourself for your sake and your baby’s sake.
Answer by cando_86
If you feel he truly is addicted and not just having a little fun, then he needs help in kicking the habit, with the help of a pscyhologist, or better yet, a sex therapist who specializes in this sort of thing. Talk to him, tell him you think he has a problem, that you’re not trying to rain on his parade, but merely make sure he’s sexually healthy, psychologically and emotionally. Go in together and work on it.
But remember- porn addiction is more rare than you’d think. When you’re addicted to porn, you shun your social life, friends, family, work, school, and everything in order to spend more time with porn. You are unable to become aroused without the help of porn, and basically, your quality of life starts to deteriorate. That is ture porn addiction. A lot of women who don’t like or understand porn think that their men who like to watch it a lot are addicted, when in fact, they have healthy and happy lives, where porn is just a naughty hobby.
But either way, go get some counseling. Whether he’s addicted or not, it’s causing rifts in your relationship that you’re going to want to heal before they grow any bigger.
Hope that helps.
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