I’m Fed Up With My Lazy Wife, What Should I Do?
Question by James: I’m fed up with my lazy wife, what should I do?
My wife and I have been married for nearly 25 years and from the start shes been a lazy unmotivated and immature women.
She gave up work after the birth of our first son over 20 years ago and all she does is sit on her arse playing games on the internet or selling things on Ebay.
She does some housework but I’m the one providing and putting the dinner on my familys plate when I come home from work.
I admit I have developed a beer addiction because of the stress. I have developed sleep apnea, and why should I motivate myself to try to change? My wife is overweight, refuses to lose the weight despite blood pressure/anxiety problems and insists she will always be “fat.”
My wife and I don’t sleep together and I don’t even have any wife and husband time with her anymore. She always insists our daughter comes with us to a meal at the pub, saying shes worried about leaving her, I find this to be bollucks, she is 14 not 4 and I have a son and his girlfriend that can be around easily should anything “happen.”
My wife says the kids come before me.
My son never spends any time with me but its always ok for him to show care to his mother, sister and his girlfriend.
My daughter is fairly good and makes time to play games with me and such, just family fun every now and then.
Am I mean to think such thoughts? I’m thinking of leaving my wife once both son and daughter have moved out. She is using me for a decent home and I can’t stand it anymore.
At the start she was more like me and likd to go out, before we had kids it wasn’t so tough. She accidently fell pregnant and then thats when it all kicked off.
Best answer:
Answer by adam k
cheat
Answer by MZ. RO
You began by saying she’s been this way “from the start” why did you marry her, why did you ALLOW this to go on for so long….your as much of the problem as she is.
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