My Husband and I Are Seperated and Still Living Together…?
Question by DD: My husband and I are seperated and still living together…?
He said that I could stay here until I finish school and get a job. I dont work cause I am trying to finish school to get a job. He said that our daughter could still live with him but she wants to live with me and we agreed its what will make her happiest. My problem is that I still want this marriage to work and he says that he doesnt know what he wants. We talked a couple of nights ago and I asked him if there is a possibilty that we will work it out and stay married. He said that “we’ll see what happens”. What does that mean?
NO, we dont sleep in the same room or bed. NO physical contact. I sleep in my own room. No i love yous.
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Answer by junk
are you 2 having sex ? yes ? he has it made,,,
Answer by Groundskeeper Willy
Having the best interest of your daughter in mind, means maybe you need to try to be partners in that venture.
Seeing what happens is an open ended way of saying “We can try” to make it work.
Have you tried counseling? I am guessing the talking stopped a long time ago. Start it up. A counselor can help kick the ball down the road.
I think if you’ve not filed paperwork and are only separated that means that you can work on things. No marriage is hopeless unless mental illness, abuse or addiction is in the picture.
Sometimes digging holes financially causes problems, if the finances are an issue one thing that helps is a program like FInancial Peace University, when we quit digging holes then we look at the relationship itself.
Date nights (you and he) without the daughter, is important. Eventually sex may happen, but the physical contact is preceded by communication..
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