Should I Wait for Him?
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So there’s this guy friend who I’m really close to. We’ve been there for each other through the thick and thin. He has a drug addiction problem (nothing too serious), and he’s currently in rehab getting back on track. I’m the one who encouraged he go, and I’ve been supporting him through it all. I admit, I do have feelings for him. Before he left he asked me if I’d be willing to try dating him when he got back, I said sure. I’ve been very excited ever since.
I was talking to his mother a couple days ago, one of my regulars check-ins to see how he’s doing since I can’t see him myself. She told me that he is doing great and so on. But there was something she told me that kind of got me. I had given a letter for her to give him when she went to visit, and she gave it to him. I asked her what he had said about the letter I sent he because he never replied, and she said that he “is glad you’re supporting him”. She didn’t go on to much more detail other than that, and when I told her I was really excited to see him when he got back, her response was, “we’ll see what happens.” Is there possibly something she could be hiding from me? Maybe he doesn’t want to see me when he gets back? Can you give me your thoughts on what was said?
Best answer:
Answer by John Smith
They say something that causes relapses is things from your old life, maybe if you guys were close before his mom knows that, that could trigger another relapse. Talk to her though, ask her straight up that you have a feeling that she is hiding something from you and you’d appreciate it if she would just please be upfront with you about everything since you have feelings for him just as she has.
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