Why Does It Hurt After, You Lose the Feelings of Love for Someone?
Question by Jack: why does it hurt after, you lose the feelings of love for someone?
I think I was in love with someone. I think so because whenever I thought of this one person I would feel happy and would always smile and just get a really good feeling about life whenever I would think of this one person. I would quite often just randomly at times of the day just think of this person and I would feel so happy and feel so great. I never met this person just only once. All of everything else is just what was built from text messages and talking on fb. I am not sure if it is possible to fall in love with someone from never being around them. But it happened to me.
So anyway there came the day when I had to stop loving this person cause I felt like I was losing control of myself. i wasn’t eating, sleeping, and just had these mood swings. I would feel so happy when I would talk with them but then after ward I felt so sad and alone. I was starting to think that I was becoming addicted to how she would make me feel so happy. Which was scary… Idk. But I had to stop thinking about her so much and all the rest. It hurt so much and now I feel like I am so dead inside. I felt so alive before but now everything seems so dull.
I know you will tell me to move on. I’ve been told this before. But I am just so confused and just wish that I could have that feeling I had before. The happiness. Can love be an addiction?
I just need answers and thought maybe anyone on here could offer some advice.
Best answer:
Answer by AvuncularUngulate
“Can love be an addiction?”
No, but infatuation sure can.
And really, you haven’t lost feelings for this girl, you’re trying to push them aside. Not an easy task. Usually the way people do this is to find something better. (Note that I didn’t say someone better.) There’s more to life than just obsessing over some girl who probably isn’t worth it anyway.
Life is good, and far too short. So look around you for the things that really matter. There are people who could use a nice, caring person like yourself. So get out there and get involved. Do it now.
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