If You Should Lose Me, You Lose a Good Thing!?
Question by Four Loko: If you should lose me, you lose a good thing!?
I was with a guy for 2years. He was fun, funny and amazing. The first 6months of the relationship I found out he was a crystal meth addict. After he heard I found out, our relationship went down hill and I tried my best to stick by his side because he told me he need help and it was hard to get off the drug. Thu out our relationship…he treated me bad, called me names and continued to cheat on me. A ago year he dumped me for someone else. He went to prison in june and will be getting out soon. His mom called and told said to me “I WANNA LET YOU KNOW THAT I WISH YOU AND MY SON COULD HAVE MADE IT HAPPEN” She told me the girl he dumped me for is sleeping around, steeling in stores and does crystal meth. She says her son doesn’t know yet and will tell him when she gets ready to let him know! She stated that her son is doing good! I wanna know this. 1. Why don’t they realize what they have in front of them when they have it? 2. Why did his mom call and tell me all of this? 3. Why didn’t he see that I was the one?
Best answer:
Answer by Mary Meyer
Listen,my little Rainbow child, he was in the grip of an addiction, and probably could see nothing past his next high. None of this was your fault. His Mom calling you is totally inappropriate. She is trying to suck you back in hoping you may be the impetus he needs to make him straighten out.This is not your job, and I highly recommend you stay away from this guy for now.He missed out, and maybe he will be better prepared for a relationship the next time he finds a good woman.That lesson will be lost on him if you let him waltz back in to YOUR life.Sorry this happened to you, but please don’t go back there. Go forward. There will be a more worthy guy along soon.
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