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Question by lara1968: Porn….Again……He says it “just happens”, and he doesn”t THINK about it?????
He did not purposely(this time) search for it,,,,has been trying to stop,,,etc.,,,but as soon as i leave the house, he is masturbating to pics of women, every time he gets caught, he says the same thing,,,,it just happens. How can it “just happen” when he is planning it ahead of the time he knows I will be gone? It isnt happenstance in that case, if he purposely goes searching on the internet to masturbate. The other day, i checked history and he had opened his email 27 times in a 40 hour period, because he was getting nudies in his email. He lost a lot of sleep doing so. Things, imo do not happen, and he always says, “i was just being stupid”, but he’ been behaving this way for one hell of a long time, so I would rule out that as an excuse, lots o things have fallen into place for me since finding out last month that he has been lying for years. Iss it an addiction, or are these things at all possible, and he just loves it??
for years, he wuld watch tv and squirm around while a model typ would come on, and i stopped going anywhere with him because of the same behvior,,,,wf????
he wanted to fantasize about them,,,,,,and i was in the way.
His mood when I left he house was great, and when I came back, and he acts weird and wants to be all sweet to me when this happens, and the lies…………………..and only interested in sex aout once a week, specially weekens, when he cant get to his girlies.
Sorry For Length.
its already been years. i have really been alone all these years, and he alwas says its “what he used to do.” But he’s never stopped.
Gets very angry when caught, like I’m interfering with his “other life”.
ok. he is purposely doing it, planning it. loving it. These women arent doing anything, they are still photos of perfection, I cant do that, as i am not a model. i almost feel like he is laughing at me when we do have sex
masturbation to stills isnt porn, anyway, it is completely a fantasy and he is fu#### them in his mind.
His approach to having sex is saying”you want to have sex”?
when I caught him,,for the 3rd time, I employed the “three strikes, you’re out”, I am trying to put all the pieces together now, and i want to thank you for your answers.

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Answer by navyfamily03
I don’t think it is an addiction, I just think he is a pig. Sorry.

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